How To Get A Threesome
To this day, I STILL remember my first threesome. Because most “first” experiences in bed which weren’t as good as I fantasized about, my first threesome was fucking amazing.
But it didn’t come without some trial and error. I’d tried at least five times to get threesomes with women in the past, but inevitably blew it every time. Whenever I thought it was going to happen, something would always come up which would make one or both of the girls want to back out.
But this time, it was different.
And here’s exactly what was different – this time, MY GIRLFRIEND actually wanted the threesome more than I did!
In fact, she actually took the initiative to call one of the other girls I was having sex with at the time, and invite her over to watch a movie.
Talk about a keeper!
So the other girl comes over, and all three of us are in my bed, in the dark, watching the movie. I was really nervous at this point – I’d gotten this far and blown it multiple times, so I wanted to make sure that I didn’t this time.
So rather than just trying to initiate the threesome without a plan like I did before, I decided to try something new.
First, I started kissing my girlfriend. I kissed her passionately for over a minute…and I could sense the other girl getting REALLY uncomfortable.
So I leaned over to her…and started kissing her. She was a little hesitant at first, but then she got into it.
And then the magic moment: I brought both girls towards each other, and told them to kiss each other. Hesitantly, they touched lips…then before I knew it, they were making out with each other with a passion I couldn’t believe.
And from there, everything just took care of itself. The girls LOVED each other, and as soon as they started touching it seemed like they couldn’t stop. And they were eager to please me as well, and they made all of the things I’d dreamed of doing in a threesome come true.
It was a beautiful, magical experience…and the reason why I’m writing to you today is that I want to show you how to have one just like it.
** WHY MOST GUYS NEVER HAVE THREESOMES **
But again, it didn’t come easy for me. I had to blow way more opportunities than I care to remember before I finally learned how to successfully have threesomes.
And the reason why I failed to get threesomes initially – and why MOST guys fail to get threesomes for their entire lives – can really be traced down to one mindset.
And that is the mindset of TRYING TO BE THE STAR OF THE SHOW in the threesome, and making it ALL ABOUT YOU.
Let me explain:
When most guys are trying to get a threesome, they’re completely focused on what an amazing experience it would be for THEM. This leads to doing things like telling their girlfriend how having a threesome has been their fantasy for their entire life, and how amazing it would feel for HIM to have two women sucking on his cock at once.
And in the bedroom, it leads to doing things like trying to act like porn stars do in threesomes, and making it all about their own pleasure. Needless to say, I did ALL of these things and I know from firsthand experience these are all great ways to blow a threesome.
** THE 4 KEYS TO GETTING A THREESOME **
What I eventually discovered is that nearly ANY woman will want to have a threesome, if you do four very important things right. Blow any one of these four things though, and you can kiss your magical experience of having two girls suck your cock at once goodbye.
So – here are the four things which really made the difference for me, and took me from blowing threesomes left and right, to being able to get one anytime I want:
** #1 – BE THE DIRECTOR, NOT THE STAR **
As I mentioned before, having the “porn-star” mentality and making it all about you is a sure way to make her NOT want to have a threesome with you. By making it YOUR fantasy rather than hers, you’re taking all the excitement out of it for her. It becomes just about pleasing you, rather than what she wants.
The much better way, I found, is to make it all about HER. To make it HER fantasy, which you are just facilitating.
The difference this makes is HUGE – it was why my girlfriend took the initiative to actually call up other girls for threesomes, where with other girls I had to cajole and convince them to just come along.
As I said before, almost all women are open to a bisexual experience if you know how to make her excited for it. But they will still want you to lead and control the interaction – especially if she hasn’t been with many girls before, she’ll want a man to take the lead like she’s used to.
So this begs the question – how to you lead, without making it all about you and trying to be the star?
The mentality that has worked best for me is taking the attitude of being the DIRECTOR. You’re the one who sets everything up, and who leads the interaction. But the stars are the two girls – you’re just allowing them to sexually connect with each other in a way they couldn’t do on their own.
And if you can make this happen, then believe me…they’ll be more than happy to take care of your pleasure.
So if you want to have threesomes, really internalize this mentality: be the DIRECTOR, not the STAR.
** #2 – USE THE THREESOME FANTASY TO MAKE HER WANT IT **
If your girlfriend has never shown any interest in other women, you’re probably wondering how you can make her want a threesome in the first place. The absolute best way to do this is to first role-play the Threesome Fantasy with her in bed, and make that a great experience for her.
Basically, with the threesome fantasy you’ll both be imagining that you’re having a threesome while you’re having sex. This mainly comes down to describing how good it will feel for HER to feel the sensations of another girl sexually touching and caressing her.
There are also a few other very important details which can make it feel real for her (such as my technique to simulate a bisexual woman giving her oral sex – women go CRAZY for this one).
Almost all women will be open to role-playing something like this, if you do it in the right way. And once you’ve started giving her orgasms from imagined threesomes, it’s VERY easy to get her to do one for real.
I describe exactly how to enact the threesome fantasy in my book, the Sex God Method. I also illustrate it with an explicit, uncensored example of using the threesome fantasy from my own sex life. If you’re interested in learning this technique, you should check out this video:
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** #3 – KNOW THE SPECIFIC THREESOME DETAILS SHE FANTASIZES ABOUT **
When I first started I thought that all women fantasized about threesomes in the same way. So I described the how good a threesome would be in the same, generic way to all of them – this got mediocre results.
Later, I found out that all women have very unique individual details to their threesome fantasies which make it exciting to them. And I also discovered that if you can get her to tell you these all-important details, you can use them to excite her when you’re describing the threesome. This can make all the difference in the world as to whether or not she wants to have a threesome with you.
For example, my girlfriend fantasized about both of us dominating the other girl together. She really got off on the fantasy of watching me fuck the other girl doggy style while I talked dirty to her. Then, she wanted to make her other girl give her oral sex…while SHE started talking dirty to her.
VERY different than what some other women fantasize about for threesomes.
Some women will fantasize about watching you fucking the other girl, and will get off on the forbidden nature of watching you have sex with someone else. And some will mainly want to have sex with you, and make the other girl watch. And some women will be VERY focused on the sex between her and the other woman.
If you can get her to tell you these details, then you can use them to excite her about the fantasy. And this makes a BIG difference in how exciting it is for her.
** #4 – ONLY CUM INSIDE YOUR GIRLFRIEND **
This seems like it wouldn’t be a big deal, but it is. Many women – even women who are totally OK with you having sex with another girl – will absolutely HATE it if you have an orgasm with the other woman.
This is for a few reasons. First of all, in the biological sense it’s hard-coded into her DNA to want to be the only one who gets to receive your sperm. And in the emotional sense, she wants to feel that she’s the only one who you can lose control that totally with.
So remember – no matter how tempting it may seem when you’re having a threesome with your girlfriend or wife, you should NEVER cum inside the other girl unless she explicitly tells you to. This will ensure the threesome is a great experience from start to finish for her.
** HOW TO BECOME THE STUD SHE WANTS THREESOMES WITH **
Now, these are all “small-picture” type techniques that you can start using TONIGHT. But there is another factor in whether or not she wants to have threesomes with you.
And that is: whether or not you know how to give her powerful orgasms.
If you’re blowing her mind in bed and giving her great sexual experiences, then she’ll be MUCH more open to trying adventurous, wild things like threesomes with you. This is because she knows that you have what it takes to make it a good sexual experience for her. So if you want to have threesomes, it’s important you learn how to give her multiple orgasms and give her what she wants.
This is where my book comes in.
In the Sex God Method, I show you how to give women orgasms by using her four “Orgasm Trigger Points.” Once you know what the Four Orgasm Trigger Points are, and how to use each one, giving her an orgasm becomes as easy as flipping a switch or pressing a button.
And it all starts here:
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-Dan
P.S. – When you start getting threesomes, they’re going to be some of the most amazing, mind-blowing experiences you’ve ever had in your life. Imagine what it’ll feel like to have two beautiful women in your bed, who are both dripping wet to have you inside them. And picture what it’ll feel like for you when they start kissing…and taking each others’ clothes off…and when they both start going down on you at the same time…
I know you’ll regret it if you never have an experience like this, so check out this video to learn how you can make it happen:
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