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Just got this email from a subscriber, and I wanted to share it with you because I think every guy has wondered about this at one time or another. And, I want to share some insights to the “does size matter?” debate, and give you some tips to give her multiple orgasms even if you’re “below average” down there in the process.

QUESTION FROM A READER:

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Dan,

1) Are you absolutely sure the dick length doesn’t matter much? Mine is only 5.25″ bonepressed while standing normally. My GF’s tented length is 3.5″, so she could probably comfortably take 7″.

The reason I ask is because she makes some noise during sex, and the deeper I go, the more sound she makes (same when I go fast, but not as deep) She also said that putting all her weight on me when she’s on top, feels better (in her pussy I’m assuming).

I imagine that if I had 7″, she’d be going crazy (although she may not have an orgasm because she’s never had an orgasm in her life. I will try a vibrator onto her clit)

2) Would it create a contrast if I gave her a dildo that’s longer than me? A contrast that would make sex with me seem not as good? One woman I asked implied this. I have a Fleshlight that’s tighter than my GF, but I never use it for this reason.

2a) What if I gave her a rabbit vibrator that’s longer than me? Definitely not good?

Thanks again for your help

Kevin

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Kevin, I’ve got lots of love for you and I’m going to answer all your questions in this newsletter.

But first, I’d like you to take a bucket of ice water, dump it over your head, and slap yourself across the face a few times. Because dude, you’ve fallen into a very dangerous trap of thinking in the bedroom, and you need to SNAP OUT OF IT!

Let’s review the facts:

-Your girlfriend has never had an orgasm

-You are singularly obsessed with genital measurements. This can be seen from the fact that you know what your penis size is down to the QUARTER INCH, and you know to “bonepress” your tape measure for increased precision in your measurements. Sadly, I’ve had enough men writing into me with questions like this that I know what this means.

-You also know your girlfriend’s “tented length” (even I don’t know what this means) down to the HALF INCH, by which I can only assume that you’ve taken out a tape measure and surveyed the dimensions of her vagina.

Now, there are two possible interpretations for this set of facts:

The first interpretation is the one that you’re taking right now. The reason why your girlfriend isn’t having orgasms is because you’re just not big enough down there. This is the assumption most men make, and it is easy to see why.

After all, your girlfriend “makes more noise” during deeper penetration. You’ve seen countless porn videos of women seeming to love having sex even more with men with cocks the size of telephone poles. And most of all, in order to know all these obscure penis measuring techniques you are probably visiting some of the (surprisingly huge) forums and websites out there dedicated to the topic. Since there are literally TENS OF THOUSANDS of men on these websites who are also obsessed with adding another quarter inch to their size, this strongly reinforces the obsession with size in your own mind.

Because of this, you do things like:

-Jealously defending her vagina against sex toys which are an inch longer than you

-Feeling insecure about your size and “imagining if [you] had 7 inches, she’d be going crazy.”

-Spending all your energy trying to increase your penis size and defend against 5.75 inch sex toys, and none trying to improve your sexual skills

I’m going to make a suggestion to you about your beliefs which is going to seem a little hard to swallow at first.

What I’m going to suggest is that although just about all men fall into this trap of thinking, this way of thinking about penis size is completely, utterly, 100% WRONG.

Here’s why it is wrong:

First of all, most of the “evidence” for the belief system that size is crucial to give a woman pleasure has been severely misinterpreted. Your girlfriend makes more noise during deeper penetration, but this is mostly because of the greater psychological Dominance which she feels from deep penetration, not so much the physical sensation of an extra .75 inch of penis inside her vagina.

Also, the women in porn are PAID ACTRESSES. Saying “the girls in porn SEEM like they love big penises, so all girls must love big penises” is like saying “Sylvester Stallone didn’t SEEM like he minded being punched in the face in the Rocky movies, so ALL men must not mind being punched in the face.” You have to realize that porn is acting just as much as a movie or a play is acting – and what’s true in a dramatic production is not necessarily true in real life.

Finally, I can guarantee that all these men on these “penis enlargement” forums SUCK IN BED. If they didn’t they’d be out having great sex rather than trying to be the guru of adding .125 inches to your penis online.

And if that wasn’t enough, consider these facts:

-Shockingly enough, when women buy dildos they usually don’t buy the 18 inch baseball bat variety. These are most often purchased as jokes, and most often women physically prefer something between 4 and 6 inches.

-An even more telling fact: sex researchers testing the sexual preferences of women found that most women could not differentiate between objects with up to two inches difference in length when they were inserted into her vagina. In other words, many women erroneously reported that a five inch object was actually seven inches, and vice versa.

And this was in a clinical laboratory setting! With all the psychological stimulation real sex provides, you can bet that she has even less ability to even notice what your real size is.

Finally, think about this:

-Deep penetration can be very exciting, but there are multiple sexual positions which allow you to achieve very deep penetration even if you have a 2 or 3 inch penis. I teach 3 of these in the Sex God Method alone.

-Ask any woman, and she’ll tell you that the psychological excitement of sex is much more important than the physical side of sex. And in fact, this is why larger penises ARE better…kind of.

A larger penis provides more psychological stimulation for her, because it’s more dominant. So yes, penis size does matter.

But – it’s insignificant compared to the other ways that you can turn a woman on with Dominance. Your skills in talking dirty to her, your ability to manhandle her in a way which will turn her on, and your sexual confidence all are much more important. I’m sure that your girlfriend would much prefer that you spent your time and energy learning how to do THESE things, rather than learning how to add an imperceptible quarter inch to your penis.

And the nail in the coffin:

-There are MANY men out there who are average or below averaged sized, who are giving women multiple screaming orgasms every single night. I myself am a scant five inches (about .274831 inches less that you ;) ), and I give women orgasms all the time.

And I have literally HUNDREDS of students who have told me that they give women orgasms despite being of below average size. Take a look at this letter from a student on the Sex God Method website:

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­”One thing that I’ve been struggling with for years is the limiting belief that my penis isn’t big enough to please a woman. I’m a few inches below average size, so it was a major source of insecurity for me over the years.

Dan’s book completely cured me of this – the stuff in his book TOTALLY overpowers penis size in importance. I’m proud to say that I’m now giving hot women multiple orgasms using his techniques on almost a daily basis.”

Brian K. from New York City, NY

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So in light of this, it’s pretty apparent that the real reason she’s not having orgasms is not your penis size. It’s because you are OBSESSED with penis size.

Your size obsession is making you insecure and unable to just relax and fully immerse yourself in the pleasure of sex. And of course, having sex with a man who is constantly inside his head worrying during sex is a huge turn off for a woman. It makes her also retreat inside her head, which makes it impossible for her to have orgasms.

Also, you use up all your time and energy thinking about size. This means that you don’t have any left to learn real sexual skills. This is the second contributing factor to her not having orgasms – your lack of ability to arouse her on the psychological level.

**IN SUMMARY: MY ADVICE**

-For the reasons I gave above, stop worrying so much about your size. If you can get out of your head PLUS learn some real sexual skills, than I can guarantee that she WILL start having orgasms with you.

-Don’t worry at all about the physical dimensions of the sex toys that you or she uses. Remember, psychological stimulation is much more important than physical stimulation. Again, rather than spending your energy defending her vagina from oversized dildos, spend it on learning real sexual skills.

-Start learning some techniques which you can use tonight to give her the best physical stimulation possible, even with a small penis. I would especially learn those sexual positions which are actually BETTER if you have a small penis (I refer to these positions as “g-spot sex” in my book).

-At the same time, start taking long term action to eliminate this limiting belief. I recommend using the four step process I give on pages 109-110 in the Sex God Method book. If you do all four of these steps correctly, within a month this limiting belief will be completely gone, and it’ll become EASY for you to give her orgasms.

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Again, I’ve had this limiting belief BAD myself…so I know how much it can ruin the pleasure you get out of sex. Something which should be the most pleasurable experience in the world is ruined by those constant insecure thoughts you get every time you look at yourself in the mirror. And eventually you start thinking “If only I could have an extra few inches, THEN I could be enjoying a great sex life” – totally discounting the reality that you could be enjoying a great sex life RIGHT NOW.

It is not your fault…as men, there are so many influences which program us to think this way. BUT – now that you’ve “seen the Matrix” here, YOU CAN DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.

I recommend that you give my book, the Sex God Method, a trial run for 30 days.

Check out the link below to learn more about the Sex God Method:

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-Dan